In need of advice OK i have a problem here, and i need some help with it
here goes:
there's this guy i really like (name and location undisclosed for safety!) he's a friend, but people say and i can see that he likes me too (as if winking at me isnt obvious enough???)
problem: im too friggin shy!!
what should i do?
(hehe well i took it seriously when it said to post personal problems!!)
bass case- 02-06-2005
hehehe! You should spend time with him. Go out to lunch, see a movie, whatever. Be nice (and obvious). 8)
redhead_violinist- 02-07-2005
problem is hes not good enough a friend that i actually see him much
i see him for 3 hours a week at orchestra
thats what i need help with...
has to be something i can say or do!!! i dont know!!
bass case- 02-07-2005
I see (and know exactly what you mean). Do you talk much? What time does orchestra end?
redhead_violinist- 02-08-2005
talk a bit
orchestra ends 12:15
bass case- 02-08-2005
Maybe you could try to go out to lunch with him after a rehersal.
redhead_violinist- 02-09-2005
oohooo and how do i go about that!!!!
i got his mob no. from a friend btw
bass case- 02-09-2005
Do you have a common friend? You could go out to lunch in a little group... or you could just walk up to him and ask him if he wants to get something to eat with you. :)
redhead_violinist- 02-10-2005
that sounds a little too scary!!!
bass case- 02-10-2005
hahaha! Well, if I knew you and him I think that I would be of more help! If there are any developments please alert us (me).
totallystring- 02-11-2005
. hhaha, from a guy's point of view ... don't be shy. just approach him. if he doesn't like you, then bad luck, but at least you tried. better than knowing you didnt try
redhead_violinist- 02-12-2005
approach him and do what??? whats the best thing from a guys point of view??? hehe he sits behind me and i heard him talking to the girl next to him and i heard my name mentioned numerous times, as well as "...........something flirting with soph something something..." hehe that got my attention!!! oh yeah and we've had the usual hand signals and stuff, we just tease eachother loads
EDIT: ok i have developements, a friend of mine gave me his email and she said she is going to talk to him about me (there was nothing i could do to stop her)
bass case- 02-13-2005
Well, that should advance things. I would definately follow TS's advice. If you "hide" forever, he will never know that you like him and nothing will ever happen. My best friend told the guy she liked that she liked him and they were going out very soon after that. Ahhh... the power of e-mail.
redhead_violinist- 02-14-2005
hehe well my friend asked him and he said no
but theres still work to be done
bass case- 02-14-2005
what did your friend ask him?
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